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My Enchanting Engagement Story

Hear all about my one-of-a-kind engagement story that takes place on a romantic picnic on a lake in small-town Missouri. From a little rain that cleared just in time for a sunset proposal to the surprise photographer that showed up in record time to capture every moment, our engagement is something I’ll always hold dear to my heart. Join me for the full story today.

A man and woman pose as their engagement story develops and unfolds.
Marc Wiggins Photography

I have talked a little about my elopement during March of last year. You can find the Rocky Mountain National Park Elopement post right here. But right now, on the one-year anniversary of our marriage, I’m sharing all the details about the day my husband proposed. It’s an unforgettable engagement story.

I thought it would be nice to take a little walk down memory lane

Plus, there are some really great photos I felt needed to be shared. We had a fabulous photographer, whom I’ll talk more about later.

I also feel so grateful to not only have it all captured on camera, but even luckier to have found someone that went the extra mile to get all the small details right. Adrian (AJ) tried so hard to make it just right for us. The thought he put into it, alone, made me swoon.

Additionally, although I see my blog niche as “all things home and garden” with some recipes thrown in, my blog is so much more than that. My whole vision involves bringing traditional homemaking skills alive again for people of all ages and genders. I want to share my joy for the simpler things in life, and for you to get to know me a little bit more, too. I think that’s what make a blog more relatable.

After all, I am a person behind a blog. I think it’s important to share personal details I feel comfortable with sharing on occasion. I want to show you snippets of who I am aside from the pretty food and freshly decorated interiors. Sure, it’s still curated. But this way I can bring a little more authenticity and trust into the mix.  

Now, before I ramble on too much and over explain myself, let’s just get into the story you’ve all been waiting for: my engagement story.

A man and woman kiss on a beach at Smithville Lake; this begins their engagement story.
Marc Wiggins Photography

The Engagement Story

It all started as a rainy afternoon. I was driving home and had a feeling that tonight was the night.” I had picked up on a few subtle signs, but kept my attire dressy casual. 

You know, just in case I was wrong and didn’t actually need to be overdressed. 

I drove home from work, Andrews McMeel Publishing, anxious and excited, wearing a comfortable pair of skinny jeans and an oversized mustard yellow sweater that complemented my skin tone and dark features. 

Simple, but cute. 

A man and woman laugh as they have a picnic near a lake.
Marc Wiggins Photography

I’d even taken the time to straighten my hair and wear make-up. Most days I go barefaced and opt for natural waves. Not today, though.

We were planning on meeting at the lake in my husband’s hometown. We’d had one of our first dates, a picnic, there two years before. 

We arrived before five’o’clock to a rainy and completely empty parking lot. Luckily, the showers were very light and the weather was cool. A slow breeze welcomed us. 

As the rain continued on in little spurts here and there, we gathered under a gazebo and unpacked the picnic Adrian packed us. 

At this time in my life, I lived a vegan lifestyle (now vegetarian) so my husband had packed blueberries and strawberries, some vegan mini muffins, plant-based cheeses, and some whiskey. I am partial to whiskey, so he did well with that!

We chatted about our day, I sipped whiskey, and we snacked on all the delicious food. And yet, I kept getting this weird feeling, wondering “Why hasn’t he asked me yet? What is taking so long?” 

A man and woman are sitting on a picnic blanket, feeding each other fruit.
Marc Wiggins Photography

I was quickly growing impatient after an hour or more had passed. I knew the autumn sun would be setting in the next hour and couldn’t imagine why we were still out here at a lake under a gazebo making small talk this entire time.

Before I knew it, a man and woman pulled into a parking spot. It was odd considering the rainy weather and the sun would be going down soon. 

The man approached my husband and asked if he could take a few pictures of us. He said he was building a portfolio and getting some practice shots and asked if we’d be up to getting a few photos taken. 

This was a little strange. Then I realized this was all probably set up. My clever husband (then boyfriend) was pulling out all the stops. 

Before I knew it, we were in the sand near the edge of the lake, Adrian and I posing with some guidance from the photographer. After a few short minutes, before I could think straight, he was down on one knee asking me to be his wife

A man and woman kiss as they are newly engaged.
Marc Wiggins Photography

I still tease him to this day about how he asked me. He was nervous. 

He didn’t give me a long, drawn-out speech and instead anxiously blurted out, “Will you marry me?!,” as quickly as he possibly could. 

I didn’t care. I was elated.

Maybe it was the presence of the photographer, or maybe it was because deep down I knew all along, but neither of us teared up the way you see it happen in movies. (This was of course a different story on our wedding day. So much emotion.) I think we were both just so nervous about our big moment. 

We embraced, stayed on the “beach” a while longer, and had many photos taken, all with the help of the photographer’s wife. 

A man and woman have just been engaged on a beach on Smithville Lake.
Marc Wiggins Photography

We headed back to the gazebo and even had some shots taken of our little picnic. I was ecstatic. Nervous to be having so many pictures taken, but I was so happy to be heading into our next chapter together. 

We drank a little more whiskey at this point, too, to celebrate our news. We were entering a new phase. It felt a bit surreal even.

Engagement Story Details 

The Location 

AJ proposed to me at Smithville Lake, a popular lake north of Kansas City. Smithville Lake is known for their hiking trails, boating, and apparently now proposals. 

I’m so glad our engagement story takes place at this spot. It was reminiscent of one of our first dates, where AJ serenaded me with delicious snacks, held me for the first time, and walked with me along the shoreline. He made me feel so loved, so having him propose to me here felt right. Meant to be, really. 

Smithville Lake has a sun setting over it on a cool fall evening.

If you want to impress your partner when planning a proposal, pick a meaningful place because it will only become that much more special.

The Picnic

AJ is not known for his cooking skills, but he makes his snackage expertise known. He was very considerate of me and my vegan diet at the time. He provided lots of vegan cheese and blueberry muffins for me. The strawberries and blueberries were just an added bonus. 

I love how he packed a variety without overdoing it. I think we were both nervous that evening, and I don’t think either of us could have eaten a full meal if we had wanted to. Having some spirits (whiskey) on hand was perfect for the celebration to calm my nerves. He planned this evening out well!

Jim Beam whiskey sits on a picnic blanket next to a glass as an engagement story unfolds.

The Ring 

No engagement story would be complete without at least mentioning the ring. AJ proposed to me with a custom ring he had designed for me. It really did fit my style. 

A woman shows off her turquoise engagement ring as the sun sets behind it on a lake.

I love turquoise, so the center stone was made of this. This round halo ring was surrounded by diamonds with a white gold band. Timeless and unique. It had a one-of-a-kind bohemian flair. 

However, today, this is not the ring I own and wear. 

Apparently, I quickly found out, turquoise is a very soft stone. When placed in jewelry it has to be set with a special adhesive. This adhesive doesn’t compare to other types of setting techniques that can be used with harder gems. 

For example, hammering can easily get diamonds and sapphires into place without breaking. Turquoise does not have this capability. This is why the center stone fell out more than once. We had it reset multiple times to no avail. 

On the final trip to the jeweler, Jewelry by Morgan, I decided I just wanted (needed) a harder gem

I decided on the classic sapphire, a stunning gem beloved by royalty for centuries. Also very reminiscent of Princess Diana’s stunning engagement ring. It has not fallen out a single time since being set nearly three years ago. I feel confident that it’s safe to wear anywhere now. 

It did cost quite a bit more than the humble turquoise, but it has been worth it. I will admit, it is more elegant, too. I can’t complain about my second ring!

The Photographer 

My husband hired a wonderful Kansas City photographer, Marc Wiggins of Marc Wiggins Photography. We were very happy with our photos and love the scenic views he’s captured of us in two different locations, our second one being in Weston Bend State Park in Weston, MO.

A fall day entertains two newly engaged people in Weston Bend State Park.
Marc Wiggins Photography

We were so grateful to receive such gracious accommodations to fit our schedule, too. He included a more formal engagement shoot in addition to the proposal shoot as a packaged deal. He was such a professional and kind photographer to work with. Would recommend!

A man and woman embrace as they have their engagement photos taken.
Marc Wiggins Photography

The Fiancé 

I couldn’t publish this post about my engagement story without at least telling you a bit more about AJ. When I told him I was adding this part he said, “I’m a man with a beard, what’s more to know?” Classic AJ. Humble and humorous

AJ and I first met when we worked together years ago at a hospital. I could instantly tell he was a hard worker, easy to get along with, and trustworthy. We became good friends over the months until we began dating. 

AJ is a clinical social worker by day and provides private therapy to clients in the evenings. In his free time he likes to spend quality time with family, watch his favorite sports teams (saying he’s a Huskers fan would be an understatement), and practice his faith. I have always admired his commitment to his spirituality.

A young man poses for his headshot.

He loves to spend time outdoors hiking, but also loves to explore the city with me when we go on dates as often as possible. An avid Kansas City Symphony concert goer, music entertainment is another pastime he enjoys. 

Adrian does nearly everything entirely too fast and is allergic to anything with fur, but I sure do love him. He is a keeper, that’s for sure. 

I will end with my favorite famous quote from literature, something I sprinkled into the wedding vows I wrote:

Whatever our souls are made of, his and mine are the same.” – Emily Brontë, Wuthering Heights

More About Me:

Simple Winter Self-Care 

Visiting Caledonia

Honeymooning in Estes Park

20 Fall Date Ideas To Cozy Up To

How We Eloped in Rocky Mountain National Park

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